MsLolaxX: "There are no good men out there..."

Oh shut up! Honestly it's just a broken record, if I had a pound for the amount of times I've heard this statement I'd be a billionaire. When are women going to take responsibility for their own ish, ever thought maybe the issue isn't so much the calibre of men out there but more so your choices? Or maybe just maybe you don't have the capability to keep a good man...with your ungrateful arse... Harsh?
Sorry it has to be said. As women we find ourselves making checklists titled “My ideal man"; what we expect from him, how he should look, what he should and shouldn’t have blah blah blah. When in hindsight we should create a checklist for ourselves titled "What I need to do to be the ideal woman" (that's a long title innit...) But noooo here we are with a list of 'ideals' singing along to Beyonce’s single ladies in public but depressingly living our love life through slow jamz behind closed doors...hmm?

The fact of the matter is there comes a time where you have to take control of your own destiny, yes I understand that in the past you were hurt by every guy you’ve been with, but have you ever considered that YOU may be the problem and not him. Take time to re-evaluate yourself and your choices. Instead of going on about what you need in a man think about what you have to offer. Instead of going on about what YOU WANT in a relationship, think about what you NEED...makes sense?..no?...read it again.

The time spent flapping your left hand about dancing to Beyonce (who by the way HAS A MAN), complaining, male bashing, kissing your teeth rolling your eyes... oh look! What’s that?...the man of your dreams just walked past, oh right yeah you was too busy entertaining your BS to notice.

#dropsmic